A Christmas Eve Blessing

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Throughout the season of Advent, we have been sitting with the titles Jesus would come to subvert: Wonderful Counselor, Mighty God, Everlasting Father, Prince of Peace.

Jesus will grow to be a fulfillment of these titles in an unpredictable way as a man who listens attentively to all people, whose strength comes from compassion rather than force, who loves like a parent, and who encourages all people to live generously.

As we prepare the way for Jesus to enter into the world tonight, let us sit with Mary through her labor pains. Let us breathe beside her and encourage her as she births a son who makes way for us all to engage in the hard, thoughtful, and rewarding work of peace, reconciliation, and love.

May this Christmas season be one of joy and inspiration as you dream of ways the world will be better as Christ is birthed anew in your life. We give thanks for you this day and for all that will come to be after this birth!

Resources for Advent Week 4

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The four-week Advent journey to the manger in Bethlehem is almost over. We offer you this daily devotional guide, sent weekly, to bless your personal devotional and prayer time. May your Advent be richly blessed.

Monday Devotional Meditation

From The Journey by Adam Hamilton, which is our 2019 Advent Book Study.

In the fall of 2010, I [Adam Hamilton] retraced the journey of Mary and Joseph by following the most direct route from Nazareth to Bethlehem. Along the way I was struck by how difficult the journey must have been for Mary, and how disappointing.

Like Mary, all of us find ourselves forced to take journeys we do not wish to make. These journeys are not prescribed by God, but by life's circumstances, or the will of others. In the midst of them, we may be disappointed; wonder if we've been abandoned by God; or simply feel confused as to why we've had to travel such roads. Perhaps Mary felt some of these same emotions on the journey to Bethlehem.

But here's what we find in Scripture and what is echoed in our own lives: God does not abandon us while we're on these journeys. Somehow, in ways we never anticipated, God even works through them. We look back years later and can see how God took adversity, disappointment, and pain and used these very things to accomplish Divine purposes.

Ann was five months pregnant when she sensed that something was not right. After an amniocentesis, doctors diagnosed her unborn baby with a genetic condition called "Chromosome 22 ring." At the time, very few cases were known. The doctors told Ann and her husband Jerry that their child would likely be stillborn. When she asked about delivering the child early so doctors might have a chance to perform a surgery that might save his life, the doctors came back and said, "Ann, this will not be a life worth saving." Ann and Jerry would remember those words many times over the years.

Matthew was born in January 1984. Ann and Jerry chose the name Matthew because it means "gift from the Lord." Matthew was born with several serious birth defects, but he lived. This was not a journey Ann and Jerry had anticipated or would have desired to make, but it was the journey life had dealt them, and they were grateful for their son.

I first met Matthew when he was eight. His mom and dad visited our church, and out of that visit, our church started a ministry for Matthew and children like him, a special-needs ministry that we named after him: Matthew's Ministry. Later, when Matthew needed surgery, knowing he would need blood, his surgery prompted us to start an annual blood drive.

Matthew died at the age of 21. His life shaped Ann and Jerry into two of the most remarkable people I know. And Matthew changed thousands of other lives. Today over 140 special-needs children and adults are part of Matthew's Ministry. Annually in our blood drives we collect over fifteen hundred pints of blood for people in the Kansas City area. Our church and community were changed as a result of this child whose life "wasn't worth saving."

God's greatest work often arises out of the journeys we don't want to take. God has a way of wringing good from disappointment, suffering, and pain. This is what Ann and Jerry found. It is what Joseph and Mary came to see again and again. Look back over your life. Can you see how God brought good from adversity? If you are on such a journey right now, trust God to walk with you and to bring good from it.

God, thank you for the way you bring good from suffering. Please help me to remember that you promised to never leave me nor forsake me. Bring good from the adversity in my life, and grant me your peace when I take those journeys I don't want to take. Amen.

Tuesday (Christmas Eve) Questions for Reflection

Watch this very powerful final Advent message from Pastor Wes, and then consider these reflection questions.

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1. As we anticipate the arrival of Jesus once again, what wars inside you must be brought to an end?

2. Where do you need to offer forgiveness and lay down the sword of being right or of being hurt?

3. Where do you need to generously offer your time and transform your calendar from a weapon to a blessing?

4. Rather than the spear of personal success, how can you use a spade to tend to someone else?

5. How will you leave the command and control of the 'military of must-ing?'

Wednesday (Christmas Day) Blessing

Jan Richardson, The Advent Door

How the Light Comes

A Blessing for Christmas Day

I cannot tell you

how the light comes.

What I know

is that it is more ancient

than imagining.

That it travels

across an astounding expanse

to reach us.

That it loves

searching out

what is hidden

what is lost

what is forgotten

or in peril

or in pain.

That it has a fondness

for the body

for finding its way

toward flesh

for tracing the edges

of form

for shining forth

through the eye,

the hand,

the heart.

I cannot tell you

how the light comes,

but that it does.

That it will.

That it works its way

into the deepest dark

that enfolds you,

though it may seem

long ages in coming

or arrive in a shape

you did not foresee.

And so

may we this day

turn ourselves toward it.

May we lift our faces

to let it find us.

May we bend our bodies

to follow the arc it makes.

May we open

and open more

and open still

to the blessed light

that comes.

Resources for Advent Week 3

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Monday Devotional Meditation

Taken from The Journey by Adam Hamilton, which is our 2019 Advent Book Study.

For nine or ten days Mary had carried in her heart the most astounding secret: She was pregnant, and the child was to be the long-awaited Messiah, Israel’s deliverer. Yet she had been afraid to share the news, for if the wrong person heard, Herod could have had her killed; or, if her loved ones didn’t believe her, the religious leaders might have condemned her and had her put to death. Perhaps she herself was afraid to trust that it was true.

But when Elizabeth prophesied over Mary and announced that she was blessed, Mary finally was able to trust that God really was at work. She believed that, despite the inherent danger in carrying the Messiah; despite the reality that her hopes and dreams had been turned upside down; and despite the fact that she didn’t fully understand, God would work through her and her child. In her acceptance of this amazing truth, Mary finally shouted out her song of joy. Can you hear the tone of her song in its opening words? “My soul magnifies the Lord! My spirit rejoices in God my Savior!”

Joy, unlike happiness, can come to us independent of our circumstances. It comes not from changing our circumstances but from viewing them through the eyes of faith. The apostles, after being beaten by the Council, rejoiced because they were counted worthy to suffer for the name of Jesus. Paul penned his well-known “epistle of joy”—the letter to the Philippians—even as he sat in a Roman prison awaiting news as to whether he would be executed for his faith. In the letter he wrote, “Rejoice in the Lord always!” Paul wrote to the Christians at Thessalonica, who themselves had been persecuted for their faith, “Rejoice always,” and then told them how this was possible when he continued, “Pray without ceasing” and “give thanks in all circumstances.”

Last year I was in Malawi, Africa, visiting rural villages to explore partnerships with local congregations to build wells, schools, and churches. In one of the villages, the people, who earn about fifty-five cents per person per day, took us to the stream of green, brackish water that they used for drinking, cooking, and cleaning. They asked us to consider helping them build a well so their children might not get sick from the water anymore.

After we had toured their village, they invited us to their church. We stepped inside the mud-brick building. It was just a large room with open holes where windows might go, and daylight shining through gaps in the thatched roof. And then they began to worship. They sang songs of joy because they trusted God, and they believed that God had brought us to Malawi to help them have safe drinking water (something we ourselves believed). Would that Christians in the United States sang with such exuberance and joy!

Mary, despite dangers, fears, risks, and upended dreams, “magnified the Lord and rejoiced in God.” She did this with the help of Elizabeth and with her own willingness to trust that God was working in and through her to accomplish Divine purposes.

Joy is a choice we make when we look at our present circumstances through the eyes of faith, trusting that God is at work and will never leave us nor abandon us. And it is often found with the help of another person who can reassure us that God is with us.

Tuesday Questions for Reflection

Adapted from The Journey by Adam Hamilton

1. How would you define "joy?"

2. How is joy different from happiness?

3. Can you remember and experience when you experienced joy at the same time you felt unhappy? Have you ever felt happy but not joyful? What do these experiences teach you about happiness and joy?

4. Think about Mary's statement, "My soul magnifies the Lord." What does it mean? How do we magnify the Lord?

Wednesday Prayer

Adapted from the UMC Social Creed and Sunday's Advent Candle Liturgy

Strong Mother, Everlasting Father, Gracious Parent,

We pause. We breathe. We reflect.

We thank you for this season where we anticipate the Unexpected Messiah.

We remind ourselves that while we continue to grow and

age, you will always be for us our eternal and loving Parent.

We hear the prophet who speaks to us saying:

God embraces all the many hues of humanity,

delights in diversity and difference,

and stands in the strength of solidarity

that transforms strangers into friends.

And so shall we.

God laughs as kittens and puppies play with uncoordinated abandon,

finds glee in the children who come full of energy,

overflows with joy when observing the cooperation of creation.

And so shall we.

This week, may we find joy in simply standing, sitting, and being

in your presence and participating in the gift of life.

May your joy now fill our souls, once again.

Sung: O come thou Dayspring come and cheer,

Our spirits by thine advent here,

Disperse the gloomy clouds of night,

And death’s deep shadows put to flight.

Rejoice! Rejoice!

Emmanuel shall come to you, O Israel.

Thursday Questions for Reflection

This week's questions are focused on the Magnificat, a modern interpretation has been included for you below. You may also choose to watch Pastor Lauren's sermon from Sunday (which will be uploaded on Tuesday), which discusses more on this topic.

A modern interpretation of Mary's Magnificat

(Luke 1:47-55) from enfleshed:

My soul is alive with thoughts of God.

What a wonder, Their liberating works.

Though the world has been harsh to me,

God has shown me kindness,

seen my worth,

and called me to courage.

Surely, those who come after me will call me blessed.

Even when my heart weighs heavy with grief,

still, so does hope abide with me.

Holy is the One who makes it so.

From generation to generation,

Love’s Mercy is freely handed out;

None are beyond the borders of

God’s transforming compassion.

The power of God is revealed

among those who labor for justice.

They humble the arrogant.

They turn unjust thrones into dust.

Their Wisdom is revealed in

the lives and truths of those on the margins.

God is a feast for the hungry.

God is the great re-distributor of wealth and resources.

God is the ceasing of excessive and destructive production

that all the earth might rest.

Through exiles and enslavement,

famines and wars,

hurricanes and gun violence,

God is a companion in loss,

a deliverer from evil,

a lover whose touch restores.

This is the promise They made

to my ancestors, to me,

to all the creatures and creations,

now and yet coming,

and in this promise,

I find my strength.

Come, Great Healer,

and be with us.

Mary prepared room for Christ in her very womb. In what ways are preparing room for Christ in our hearts? In our lives? In our finances? In our families? In our community?

As children of Christ who get to continue his legacy of love, how are we telling of the glory of our Everlasting Father? The one who loves us like a parent with accountability, grace, and love; who throws a party at our return to community; who celebrates us even when we make mistakes? How are we reflecting on the stories of our lives and seeing how Christ is present in our midst?

How are we shouting a new story? A story that disrupts the frantic consumerism and worry, characteristic of a typical American lifestyle, to one of thoughtfulness, love, and compassion?

In what ways are we living so that heaven and nature can sing in harmony? How are we being good stewards of the land, sea, and air? How are we creating an earth more like heaven where everyone has enough, wars cease, and all creation can live in harmony?

Friday Prayer

Adapted from Walter Brueggemann

In the midst of a tired and fearful world,

we have heard your everlasting promise to be faithful

to us in times of need, worry, and distress.

We call upon you to bring us a fresh vision for the future.

We ask you to help us to see our part in restoring

our world to be more like that of your dreams...

where all find their place in your story of hope

and are filled with good things.

Be with us as we long for your presence and help us

to be ready for your coming. Amen.

Resources for Advent Week 2

Monday Prayer

Adapted from the UMC Social Creed and Sunday's Advent Candle Liturgy

Holy One, Mighty God, Lover of our Souls,

We pause. We breathe. We reflect.

We thank you for this season where we anticipate the Unexpected Messiah.

We await the Christ who comes to be born in us,

reminding ourselves that you are God, and we are not.

We hear the prophet who speaks to us saying:

God loves and cares for all of creation,

wills the healing and wholeness of all life,

weeps at the plunder of earth’s goodness.

And so shall we.

God sees every injustice and responds with compassion,

provides a cup that overflows,

reignites our souls when shadows come.

And so shall we.

So today, we pray for unity and oneness for all God’s created order.

May God’s perfect love be birthed among and through us today.

O come o come, great God of Might

Who to thy tribes on Sinai’s height,

In ancient times once gave the law,

In cloud and majesty and awe.

Rejoice! Rejoice!

Emmanuel shall come to you, O Israel.

Tuesday Questions for Reflection

Adapted from Names for the Messiah by Walter Bruggemann...you may also choose to watch Pastor Wes's sermon from Sunday, which discusses the topics in this section.

Sunday's contemporary reading stated: The phrase “Mighty God” from Isaiah does not first of all invite a question about Jesus’s status as “God” or “Man.” Instead, it asks about his power in a world that is organized around many claimants for power, most especially the power of Rome. It is clear that he will not compete with the power of Rome on the terms of Rome. His assertion in the Fourth Gospel at his trial before the Roman governor is, “My kingdom is not from this world.”

1. In what do you think people have misunderstood Jesus's statement, "My kingdom is not from this world?" What do you think he really meant, and what does that say about the way Jesus understood power and authority?

2. Continuing on this week's sermon theme of God's power and might, consider that Jesus gave the disciples the authority to "cure the sick." Have you ever felt or practiced this authority? In whatever ways you understand this kind of authority and power, what do you think this could look like in your life today, this week, and in the coming year?

3. How do you see the church displaying the power of God, as modeled by Jesus, in our world today?

Wednesday Devotional Meditation

Taken from The Journey by Adam Hamilton, which is our 2019 Advent Book Study.

It is not by accident that Matthew tells us that while Gabriel spoke directly to Mary, Joseph's message came in a dream. We can see a connection between this Joseph and the patriarch Joseph, whose story fills nearly thirteen chapters of Genesis. God spoke to that Joseph in dreams (hence the title of Andrew Lloyd Webber and Tim Rice's musical, Joseph and the Amazing Technicolor Dreamcoat), and in a similar way God spoke to Joseph the carpenter in dreams. Matthew looks for these kinds of parallels between the Old Testament and the story of Jesus.

Has God ever spoken to you in a dream? I hardly remember the dreams I have when I sleep. But I frequently have what could be called day dreams. Some might call these visions. In them I sometimes see what could be; what I believe God wants to be. These are ideas that come to me while I'm reading Scripture, or hearing someone else preach, or meeting with my small group, or conversing with others. Often these are dreams that come when seeing places of great need. I carry a little black book with me to write down these dreams when they occur, because I quickly forget them.

Dreams can also emerge as you hear other people's dreams. Several years ago Karla, one of our staff members at the church, felt compelled to start a worship service for senior adults who had Alzheimer's, dementia, or other forms of memory loss. She announced it to area nursing homes, and they began sending buses of people to the worship service in our chapel.

Karla and her team filled the service with well-known hymns, familiar creeds, the Lord's Prayer, and simple messages that might help people remember who they are. Recently the teachers in our daytime kids program began bringing the little children to sing for the worship service. The three- and four-year-olds sang, "Jesus loves me, this I know, for the Bible tells me so. Little ones to him belong; they are week, but he is strong." As the children sang the chorus, "Yes, Jesus loves me," voices of people who could not remember their own names joined the children: "Yes, Jesus loves me. Yes, Jesus loves me. The Bible tells me so."

The dream of one woman became the dream of a host of volunteers, and together they did what they felt God was leading them to do. The result was something extraordinary.

God spoke to Joseph in dreams. Joseph's dreams called him to devote the rest of his life to nurturing, mentoring, and protecting Jesus. My dreams from God seldom come at night. They are a sense of calling that wells up inside.

Are you listening for God to speak to you? And if God speaks, are you willing to obey? Listening for God's dreams, and following them, made all the difference in Joseph's life, and it makes all the difference in our lives as well.

Thursday Questions for Reflection

Adapted from The Journey by Adam Hamilton

1. How do you think Joseph first learned of Mary's pregnancy? Did Mary tell him? Did it come in the form of a rumor? Might Elizabeth, Zechariah, or some other member of Mary's family have told him? How do you think Joseph felt as he first received that news?

2. Joseph experience an angel in a dream. How do you think he knew it was an angel? How would you feel if you dreamed of an angel telling you to do something contrary to popular custom and perhaps contrary to what you were feeling?

3. Which of the angel's pronouncements might have surprised Joseph more: that the child was conceived by the Holy Spirit, or that the child would save his people from sin?

4. What do you think the primary lesson is when you look at Joseph's part of this story of the birth of Jesus?

Friday Prayer

From Psalm 51

Create in me a clean heart, oh God,

and put a new and right spirit within me.

Do not cast me away from your presence,

and do not take your Holy Spirit from me.

Restore to me the joy of your salvation,

and sustain in me a willing spirit...

Oh God, Open my lips

and my mouth will declare your praise.

Amen.

Resources for Advent Week 1

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Monday Prayer

Adapted from Names for the Messiah by Walter Bruggemann...you may also choose to watch Pastor Wes's sermon from Sunday, which discusses the topics in this section.

Sunday's contemporary reading stated: The phrase “Mighty God” from Isaiah does not first of all invite a question about Jesus’s status as “God” or “Man.” Instead, it asks about his power in a world that is organized around many claimants for power, most especially the power of Rome. It is clear that he will not compete with the power of Rome on the terms of Rome. His assertion in the Fourth Gospel at his trial before the Roman governor is, “My kingdom is not from this world.”

1. In what do you think people have misunderstood Jesus's statement, "My kingdom is not from this world?" What do you think he really meant, and what does that say about the way Jesus understood power and authority?

2. Continuing on this week's sermon theme of God's power and might, consider that Jesus gave the disciples the authority to "cure the sick." Have you ever felt or practiced this authority? In whatever ways you understand this kind of authority and power, what do you think this could look like in your life today, this week, and in the coming year?

3. How do you see the church displaying the power of God, as modeled by Jesus, in our world today?

Wednesday Devotional Meditation

Taken from The Journey by Adam Hamilton, which is our 2019 Advent Book Study.

It is not by accident that Matthew tells us that while Gabriel spoke directly to Mary, Joseph's message came in a dream. We can see a connection between this Joseph and the patriarch Joseph, whose story fills nearly thirteen chapters of Genesis. God spoke to that Joseph in dreams (hence the title of Andrew Lloyd Webber and Tim Rice's musical, Joseph and the Amazing Technicolor Dreamcoat), and in a similar way God spoke to Joseph the carpenter in dreams. Matthew looks for these kinds of parallels between the Old Testament and the story of Jesus.

Has God ever spoken to you in a dream? I hardly remember the dreams I have when I sleep. But I frequently have what could be called day dreams. Some might call these visions. In them I sometimes see what could be; what I believe God wants to be. These are ideas that come to me while I'm reading Scripture, or hearing someone else preach, or meeting with my small group, or conversing with others. Often these are dreams that come when seeing places of great need. I carry a little black book with me to write down these dreams when they occur, because I quickly forget them.

Dreams can also emerge as you hear other people's dreams. Several years ago Karla, one of our staff members at the church, felt compelled to start a worship service for senior adults who had Alzheimer's, dementia, or other forms of memory loss. She announced it to area nursing homes, and they began sending buses of people to the worship service in our chapel.

Karla and her team filled the service with well-known hymns, familiar creeds, the Lord's Prayer, and simple messages that might help people remember who they are. Recently the teachers in our daytime kids program began bringing the little children to sing for the worship service. The three- and four-year-olds sang, "Jesus loves me, this I know, for the Bible tells me so. Little ones to him belong; they are week, but he is strong." As the children sang the chorus, "Yes, Jesus loves me," voices of people who could not remember their own names joined the children: "Yes, Jesus loves me. Yes, Jesus loves me. The Bible tells me so."

The dream of one woman became the dream of a host of volunteers, and together they did what they felt God was leading them to do. The result was something extraordinary.

God spoke to Joseph in dreams. Joseph's dreams called him to devote the rest of his life to nurturing, mentoring, and protecting Jesus. My dreams from God seldom come at night. They are a sense of calling that wells up inside.

Are you listening for God to speak to you? And if God speaks, are you willing to obey? Listening for God's dreams, and following them, made all the difference in Joseph's life, and it makes all the difference in our lives as well.

Thursday Questions for Reflection

Adapted from The Journey by Adam Hamilton

1. How do you think Joseph first learned of Mary's pregnancy? Did Mary tell him? Did it come in the form of a rumor? Might Elizabeth, Zechariah, or some other member of Mary's family have told him? How do you think Joseph felt as he first received that news?

2. Joseph experience an angel in a dream. How do you think he knew it was an angel? How would you feel if you dreamed of an angel telling you to do something contrary to popular custom and perhaps contrary to what you were feeling?

3. Which of the angel's pronouncements might have surprised Joseph more: that the child was conceived by the Holy Spirit, or that the child would save his people from sin?

4. What do you think the primary lesson is when you look at Joseph's part of this story of the birth of Jesus?

Friday Prayer

From Psalm 51

Create in me a clean heart, oh God,

and put a new and right spirit within me.

Do not cast me away from your presence,

and do not take your Holy Spirit from me.

Restore to me the joy of your salvation,

and sustain in me a willing spirit...

Oh God, Open my lips

and my mouth will declare your praise.

Amen.

Christ-mass Preparations Begin!

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This Sunday, our preparations for the arrival of the Christ-child begin! I invite you join us, especially if you have not been to church in a while, for a very special Advent Season leading up to Christmas.

This is such a special and holy season. I hope you will make it a point to step away from the secular holiday events to truly explore the meaning and message of this season of peace and joy as we together await for the birth of Jesus.

This Sunday we will begin a new series entitled, "The Unexpected Messiah," which will focus on the ways that Jesus was not the Savior that everyone thought they wanted, but he was exactly what was needed. The series is based on the famous line from Isaiah 9: "A child is born to us, a son is given to us, and authority will be on his shoulders. He will be named Wonderful Counselor, Mighty God, Eternal Father, Prince of Peace." In this Advent series, we will turn these historic titles upside down, inside out, and back up again to explore the ways Jesus was an unexpected Messiah, queering and challenging the expectations of what deliverance means for the world.

I am excited to discover new sides to Jesus as we journey from here to the manger on Christmas Eve.

I hope to see you soon on the road to Bethlehem!

Winter Outreach

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Life's most persistent and urgent question is, 'What are you doing for others?' -Martin Luther King, Jr.

Our Winter Outreach Shelter provides refuge on the coldest nights of the year saving people’s lives. Our guests range from those who have always been poor and have always lived with housing insecurity to others who have become unhoused because of their mental health or substance use challenges. And many others are unhoused for reasons that we will never know.

Over the last 10 years, I have stayed committed to this program because the generous, incredible people who take refuge for a safe night’s rest in our care. I cannot tell you how many times I have watched someone, carrying on their backs all they own, quickly dig through their few belongings to find pants or a belt for another guest who needs it more! Today, I am grateful to share some of the stories of those who have shared a night of their lives with me:

Among past guests was the woman who carried herself elegantly as she rolled her small suitcase into the shelter. One of our volunteers gasped, remarking: “she was my teacher!” Quietly, he said that this woman had been an impressive teacher that he remembered well from his childhood.

I remember a young couple, sitting up late into the night as they studied for an exam in a dental tech program they were both enrolled in. The next week, they came back SO excited to tell us that they had passed the exam – largely due to the help of one of our volunteers who sat up helping them prepare.

And then there was the family of four: mom, full-time-employed dad, and two small children. The mom cried as she said that two months earlier she had been the one passing out sandwiches to the homeless. But then the pipes broke in their apartment, the apartment was condemned, and they were suddenly unhoused without money to pay a deposit and first/last month rent.

Every one of our guests has their own story. And ALL deserve a warm place to stay on deadly cold nights.