In Ireland, people leave their doors open as midnight nears as a way of ushering out the old and welcoming in the new. As we enter this threshold day, when even the moon is just shy of new, what are we hoping to leave behind? What are we hoping to welcome in?
Though this is a timely question given it is New Year’s Eve, we can practice this sense of opening all year round. When crossing over any threshold, we have an opportunity to begin again, to reset, to welcome.
Before entering a room, take a breath. Consider the place you came from. The place in which you are entering. What do you hope to greet there? What do you fear behind the door? What do you hope changes once you cross the threshold?
Whatever the threshold - the doorway that leads to home, entering into a Zoom room, sitting down on a stool at a gay bar, entering the sanctuary at the church or crossing through the automatic doors at the grocery store - we have an opportunity to practice such awareness. What quotidian thresholds do you regularly cross? How might you welcome them anew? What larger thresholds - or frontiers - are on the horizon for you? How might you open yourself to them in all the ways you might be surprised at what you find across the threshold?
Happy New Year, Friends! May this year bring us opportunities to enter into the good that is ours to do and delight us with wonder and beauty along the way.
"Benedictus" by John O'Donohue
A threshold is not a simple boundary; it is a frontier that divides two different territories, rhythms and atmospheres.
Indeed, it is a lovely testimony to the fullness and integrity of an experience or a stage of life that it intensifies towards the end into a real frontier that cannot be crossed without the heart being passionately engaged and woken up.
At this threshold a great complexity of emotion comes alive: confusion, fear, excitement, sadness, hope.
This is one reason why such vital crossings were always clothed in ritual.
It is wise in your own life to be able to recognize and acknowledge the key thresholds: to take your time, to feel all the varieties of presence that accrue there, to listen inwards with complete attention until you hear the inner voice calling you forward.
The time has come to cross.
To acknowledge and cross a new threshold is always a challenge.
It demands courage and also a sense of trust in whatever is emerging.
This becomes essential when a threshold opens suddenly in front of you, one for which you had no preparation.
This could be illness, suffering or loss.
Because we are so engaged with the world, we usually forget how fragile life can be and how vulnerable we always are.
It takes only a couple of seconds for a life to change irreversibly.
Suddenly you stand on completely strange ground and a new course of life has to be embraced.
Especially at such times we desperately need blessing and protection.
You look back at the life you have lived up to a few hours before, and it suddenly seems so far away.
Think for a moment how, across the world, someone’s life has just changed – irrevocably, permanently, and not necessarily for the better – and everything that was once so steady, so reliable, must now find a new way of unfolding.
Though we know one another’s names and recognize one another’s faces, we never know what destiny shapes each life.
The script of individual destiny is secret; it is hidden behind and beneath the sequence of happenings that is continually unfolding for us.
Each life is a mystery that is never finally available to the mind’s light or questions.
That we are here is a huge affirmation; somehow life needed us and wanted us to be.
To sense and trust this primeval acceptance can open a vast spring of trust within the heart.
It can free us into a natural courage that casts out fear and opens up our lives to become voyages of discovery, creativity, and compassion.
No threshold need be a threat, but rather an invitation and a promise.
Whatever comes, the great sacrament of life will remain faithful to us, blessing us always with visible signs of invisible grace.
We merely need to trust”